email and checks my mail from there computer? my girlfriend emailed from her home computer her huband checks her email and has gotten into the acct's of some peolpe she emailed to, ive noticed since i receiver the email from her im not getting as many messages as before very unusual ive noticed it more on a daily bases now, i do know that he has hacked into a family members email and read her mail , what can i do to find out if he has some how done this to me.