much from google searches that it really doesnt answer? my question. i have a severely disabled sister who is bed bound, tube fed, blind she can hear and respond to things although she doesnt talk she has a deterition of the muscles sydrome and is now 29yrs of age has had it since the age of 6yrs old my mum takes full 24/7 care of her my question is i dont think i be able to cope to look after her own my own as it means me being unable to work as i am the only sibling she has. I heard a friend of my mum put her son in a care home as he was ill my question is as my sister is disabled and doesnt work who pays for her care home as i dont earn more than 14000 a year and i live on ma own.no i live in the uk and my mum was saying as everytime i mention it she gets upset that as my sister is unable to work the government will pay and she does get benefits but she is severly disabledok so are you saying that the government will pay for the whole of my sisters care so my mum was actually right then they wouldnt look on me to care for her as obviously i have to pay my bills and work for my living to liveok so basically i dont have to pay for putting my sister in a care home as she doesnt work at all and i am the only sibling she has and of course coz i have to live my life they wont force it on me to look after her they will pay all the costs and i dont have to pay a penny